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Is Online Dating For You?

Posted by admin in Long Distance Relationship on February 27, 2012

The most common answer which people will give you if you ask them whether online dating is for them is: “Online dating is only for you if you are single and available.” But what are the other factors to consider when deciding if online dating is for you? We have compiled the top 3 factors to consider before going for an online date.

First of all, online dating is for you if you are too busy with work or studies to physically meet other people your age. By the time you reach home from work or university, you may find that you are too tired to put in any effort into dressing up and making yourself look attractive for a date. The eye bags and tired-looking expressions may be a turn off and cause you to miss out on a great opportunity to find love. This is where online dating is an advantage to you. On days where you don’t look that great and appealing, you can hide your looks behind the screen and chat through the Instant Messaging features available online. You can just wear your at-home-clothes and go for an online date, without caring about your posture or if everything is in place. Online dating saves you a lot of time and effort.

Next, online dating is for you if you are ready to date, but still looking for the right person to come along. Online dating sites have a system where you can search for certain characteristics that you’d look for in your other half. You can filter the user profiles by age, interests, and also character. By using their services, you will be able to find someone who suits your interests and personality. Furthermore, you don’t have to be afraid of being rejected because people who use the online dating sites are all ready to go for a date; some are even ready to be in a serious relationship.

Last but not least, online dating is for you if you are shy or always get tongue-tied when meeting someone you like. By chatting online, you will have more time to think of your response to the person without being afraid of awkward pauses. It is still best if you can experience online dating for yourself to know whether online dating is for you.
You should give it a try as there is nothing to lose.

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Learn If You’re Ready to Give Up Your Freedom For a New Relationship

Posted by admin in Friendship, Love, Relationship on October 20, 2011

If you are single and dating, are you willing to give up some of your freedom for a new relationship? Find out if you are ready for a lasting relationship when you take this simple Love Test:

1. What’s Your Goal In Dating?

Are you dating for short-term fun or to forget about a past relationship? Are you running from a new relationship no matter how wonderful your lover is? Are you satisfied with casual connections? If so, you can take a pass on this Love Test.

Do you want to create a happy relationship that lasts? Are you willing to change your life when you meet your ideal love match? To discover your answer, consider the next question:

2. What’s The Value Of Your New Relationship?

How do you determine the value of a new relationship? When you meet someone who inspires your desire to create a relationship, hold them in your heart and your thoughts as you ask yourself:

How do you enrich each others’ lives?

How satisfying is your sex life and emotional intimacy?

Do you feel stronger, more energized, more joyful with this person in your life than you do without them?

Are you willing to consider their needs as much as your own?

Are you willing to make a priority of enjoying time together?

Are you clear about the challenges that may arise when you share your life with this person? Are you willing to handle these challenges as a team?

Do you accept each others’ flaws and bring out the best in each other?

Could you see yourself raising a family together, or enjoying your grown children and grandchildren together, depending on your parenting status and stage of life?

Do you share common values and life experiences?

Are you intellectually stimulated and eager to learn more about your partner? Do they feel the same about you?

Do you agree on a future form your relationship will take, whether it will be a legal union or a committed relationship without marriage?

Could you let go of other emotional connections without regret and happily focus on building a life together?

Once you understand your feelings about your love match, you are ready to explore the next question.

3. Do You Love Your Freedom More Than This Relationship?

How much do you love your freedom?

Would you rather make your own choices and plans without having to consider a partner’s needs and desires?

Would you rather maintain separate lives and homes and simply gather for couple activities as the need arises?

Are you dating someone who also prefers this type of relationship? If so, you both may be content to be a casual couple. If not, you may need to move on.

If you want to save this relationship, you may want to reconsider the value you place on your freedom.

4. Are You Willing To Give Up Some Of Your Freedom To Gain The Benefits Of A Lasting Relationship?

Does your new love magnify your joy, support your challenges and enrich your life in body, mind, spirit as you do for them?

How would you feel if you gave up their love?

How would you feel if you gave up some of your freedom to save this relationship?

Once you have discovered your answers to the questions on this Love Test, you will know if you are ready to experience the benefits and challenges of a lasting relationship.

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5 Minutes to Finding the Love of Your Life

Posted by admin in Dating, Love on October 20, 2011

We all want an amazing love relationship, yet in today’s dating scene it is harder than ever to find the love of your life. Does this scenario sound familiar? You meet that special person you really like. You go out on a few dates and think there may be a real connection there for you. Then you discover that the person is not a good fit, and even worse, a huge disappointment!

And what did you get in return? More wasted time and energy, but what if you could find out in about 5 minutes if a person has the potential to be the love of your life?

Find Out in 5 Minutes

There are a series of four steps to finding the love of your life in Conscious Dating:

1. Scouting is the process of finding people to meet.
2. Sorting is the process of quickly determining in a conversation if someone you meet is a person you would like to get to know.
3. Screening is the process of gathering enough information to determine if someone meets your requirements or not.
4. Testing is the process of gaining experience and knowledge about the relationship and the potential partner to determine if they meet your requirements.

The sorting step is where you can potentially find the love of your life in five minutes and the power introduction is your key.

Welcome to the Power Introduction

What is a power introduction? A power introduction is a method of introduction to help determine whether or not you have something in common with someone.

When and where should you use a power introduction? Use the power introduction anytime and anywhere you wish to engage someone you think you might be interested in getting to know better.

Why use the power introduction?

* It allows you to be the chooser.
* It allows you to remain objective and not get swept away by attraction.
* It allows you to engage and disengage gracefully, and with confidence.

How does it work? First you have to know who you are, in other words be authentic. Know what you want and know that you will get what you want.

When you engage someone introduce yourself and begin determining in a conversation if the person is what you want and if you are what they want. The key is to share about yourself first and then share some questions which address your key requirements. Your goal is to sort them in a short amount of time – 5 minutes.

If you get a green or yellow light, don’t leave without getting a phone number or a business card! On the other hand, if you get a red light, disengage gracefully by saying something nice and thanking the person for their time.

Remember: A good power introduction is an exchange of information, not just asking someone a list of questions and then judging them on their answers. However, take care not to reveal everything about you too early. Revealing all that you are takes time.

The power introduction can help you save some time when you are trying to determine whether or not you have enough in common with someone to take the time to get to know them. At its very best this strategy can help you find the love of your life in about 5 minutes.

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